Open communication can help your family navigate what your home represents and what comes next
Your home is full of heartwarming memories; your children’s first steps, the holidays hosted, the birthdays celebrated and countless other milestones. If you decide to keep your home in the family by passing it on to your children, communicating openly with your loved ones now helps them honor your wishes and make informed decisions about what comes next.
For many baby boomers, homes they own, whether their primary residence or a second or vacation home, are a significant part of the inheritance they plan to leave their loved ones. In fact, homeownership has contributed greatly to their ability to build wealth due to home values increasing in recent years.
However, for younger generations, things like paying down student debt and saving for a retirement without pensions often delay their own homeownership plans. While your children likely love the family home as much as you do, these financial realities may make inheriting a home feel daunting. Starting the discussion about this process now can help them understand your wishes and allow you to have a fuller picture of what best suits your family’s needs.
It’s important for your heirs to consider how they see the home fitting into their lives, and for you to consider how you wish to eventually transfer ownership. Taking the time to communicate these ideas is a way to ensure that your wishes are properly enacted. Transferring ownership also involves logistics, like whether your heirs will own the home outright, or be responsible for an existing mortgage.
Living in the home or keeping it as a rental property would come with certain costs, like property taxes, insurance and maintenance. Or you may decide together it makes the most financial sense for your heirs to sell the home.
For many families, taxes may factor in less than expected. Federal estate taxes generally apply only at the highest wealth levels, so most households won’t encounter them, though a few states do impose estate or inheritance taxes. Understanding these distinctions ahead of time can help families plan thoughtfully.
In some cases, the right choice may be for you to downsize or relocate while you’re still able to do so on your own terms, to reduce future financial and logistical considerations for yourself and for loved ones.
When passing on a home, there are several ways to transfer ownership. Different factors, such as whether you’re considering passing on your primary home or an additional home or property, can impact how you proceed, so you may want help pinpointing the strategy best suited to your family. Some examples are:
This allows ownership to be transferred intergenerationally by deed. There are various options, including joint tenancy with rights of survivorship, tenants in common, life estate or transfer on death. In some of these arrangements, the adult child is added to the deed during the homeowner’s lifetime, and their financial or legal obligations or other personal circumstances could affect the home, which may be something to consider. Additionally, if a home is transferred during the owner’s lifetime, the transfer may be treated as a gift for tax purposes, and the recipient generally does not receive a step-up in cost basis. Transfers at death may have different tax implications, but state inheritance or estate taxes could still apply. In some cases, changing ownership may also affect homestead benefits or property tax rules, which vary by state.
Depending on your state’s laws, you can name your home as a limited liability company. You keep at least 51% and designate your children as members of the rest. An operating agreement sets procedures to transfer ownership and guidelines for property use. LLCs offer flexibility, potential reduction of your taxable estate and protection for family members, but it can be costly to establish and maintain. Some lenders also may not offer traditional residential mortgages for properties owned by an LLC, and transferring a mortgaged home into an LLC could trigger provisions in some loan agreements that require the remaining loan balance be paid immediately.
Trust agreements outline terms of use and how the property will be transferred, held and managed. Trusts allow some degree of control and can be less expensive to draft and implement than other options. There are many types of trusts, some with more flexibility than others, so consult an expert or estate attorney.
Each strategy comes with different benefits and considerations, including gift or estate tax implications that may impact how you decide what’s right for your family. Whatever you decide, keep conversations going with your family to foster clarity and comfort, and help ensure your wishes are understood and supported.